54 - The Mourning

The Mourning
Also：Sadness

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A woman dressed in black as a mourn sitting on a stone. Symbols of loss in the background, broken columns and bleak, sheer, barren landscape. Previously, it was an unwritten law to wear black clothes after the death of our closest relative. The surviving spouse usually had to show openly for one year to mourn, and therefore not yet open to a new relationship. This habit was useful because the widow was ready again for the new companion after the deep and alone mourning.

Card Info

Card NO.

54

Card Name

The Mourning

Corresponding constellation

Taurus/Scorpio

Corresponding planet

Venus/Pluto

Card Type

Aspect

A. Problem

This applies to the first card in your deck, which is the core of this card, describes the background of your problem and represents the source of your problem.

You drove very far from your own inner truth. You suppress a pain in yourself and thus unconsciously prevent the wound from healing. You need to get closer to your inner personality who deals with your sorrow from your relationships. As long as you do not get in touch with him and you do not mourn the one you have lost, your life spirits will not return to you. Time will only heal your wounds if you have cleansed it with your tears.

B. Way

In your deck, remove the first and last cards, and the rest of the cards need to use the text in this section (way). Here are some things you need to do on the way forward.

You have to say goodbye to your relationship or partnership during your journey. A period of sorrow and loneliness is ahead of you. If you do not forget that all things are transient, then it will help to preserve your courage in this grim period. At the end of the process you will see that it was necessary to regain the energies you gave to your partner.

C. Outcome

Interpretation of the last card in your deck requires the use of text in this section (outcome). This card explains the final result of the theme (also your question) that your card represents. It's important to note that you must be clear about your thoughts before any explanation of the card combination becomes effective.

It is up to you to take responsibility for your relationship. At the end of the path of your development, you will realize that your dependence on your partner's moods and reactions was just an illusion. You will learn how to overcome the complexity of your relationship and not transfer the mistakes to your partner. This will make you strong and independent.

Newbie must read: "How to read cards correctly"

Each Card's interpretation text is divided into three parts: A - problem), B - way), and C - outcome. However, when interpreting the card, be careful not to consider all three parts of each card at the same time. This will cause your understanding of the meaning of the card. Become confused. You need to decide which part of the text to read based on the position of each card.

Correct reading logic for the three parts A, B and C

If the card is the first card of the card, then read Part A.
If the card is the last card of the card, then read Part C.
None of the above, then read Part B.

Dialectical relationship between the three parts A, B and C

Below, a metaphor for the progressive relationship between the three parts of the same card, A, B, C (note, not in the demonstration of the interpretation of the card, but in the three parts of the ABC for a card) Dialectical relationship is a metaphor).

Suppose that part A of a card presents you with a goal - suggesting that you climb a challenge to climb Everest to expand your memory.

Part B of this card is responsible for telling you what you need to do.

For example, what equipment do you need to buy, and what kind of transportation (train or plane) to travel to Lhasa. Once you arrive in the area, you will need to go to Everest Base Camp to hire a guide to fill your oxygen bottle and you can start climbing.

Then, Part C predicts which memories you will gain in this challenging journey, which will become part of your life.

Of course, C may also predict that your journey may be blizzard and you have to return halfway through. The result of not achieving the goal will be part of the meaning of the journey.

So, if you skipped Parts A and B from the beginning, you read directly to Part C: "You will not reach your goal." Then you look at this sentence and come to a conclusion - this journey will be futile - why bother yourself? So you gave up the proposal in Part A and chose to continue sitting on the sofa at home.

Ok, if you really want to do this, then you lose the value of Deka, and Deka can't help you. Be aware that the process is the treasure of our memory. If you care about the outcome for everything and don't care about the process, then you can only leave a memory in your life - "failure."

You will be the one who only likes to read books on the shore to teach how to swim but never immerse his delicate toes in the water - such people can never learn to swim.